Getting confused finding a good husband for us? It is recommended you have to perform dua to get a good husband. When a woman has already in a productive age, they need a person to share with and together reaching the goal of life.
Moreover, in Islam when a person reaches adulthood age and capable financially, so it is recommended getting married. Yet getting married is not as simple as we thought.
We should find the good husband/spouse in order to run the marriage in sakina (peaceful), mawadda (loving and hopeful), and rahmah (affectionate).
1. Quran 2:201 Al Baqara
“Rabbanaa aatinaa fidunyaa hasana, wa fil aakhirati hasana, wa qinaa azaabannaar
“Our Lord! Give unto us in the world that which is good and in the Hereafter that which is good, and guard us from the doom of Fire.”
2. Dua from Hadith
“Rabbi hablee min ladunka zaujan tayyiban wayakoonaa sahiban lee fiddeeni wadunyaa wal aahirat”
“O Lord, give me the best husband from your side, the husband who also became my best friend in the affairs of religion, world affairs & the hereafter”
3. Quran 28 : 24 Al Qasas
“Rabbi inni lima anzalta ilayya min kharyin faqeer”
“My Lord, I am ever needful of any favor that You may send my way”
4. According to Hadith Narrated by Abu Dawood.
“Allahumma, rahmataka arju fala takilni ila nafsi tarafata `aynin wa aslih li sha’ni kullahu.
“O Allah, I beseech Your mercy, so do not abandon me to my own devices even for an instant; and straighten all of my affairs for me”
5. According to Hadith Narrated by Tirmidhi
“Allahumma aghnini bi halalika `an haramika wa bi ta`atika `an ma`siyatika wa bi fadlika `amman siwaka”.
“O Allah, make me self-sufficient with what You have declared as halal for me so that I am not compelled to resort to that which is haram; and make me self-sufficient with Your obedience so that I am not compelled to disobey You; and make me self-sufficient with Your favor so that I do not need to look to others for favor”.
6. QS Al Furqan 25:74
“Rabbanaa hablanaa min azwajinaa wa zureeyatinaa qurataa a’yunee waj’alnaa lil muttaqeena imaama”.
“Our Lord, grant us from among our wives/ husband and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.”
7. Dua Narrated by Imam Ali
“Allahuma arzuqniy zawjatan wadudaan waludaan shakuraan ghayuraan ‘iin ‘ahsant shakarat w ‘iin ‘asat ghafarat wa ‘iin dhakart allah taealaa ‘aeanat w ‘iin nasiyt dhakarat w ‘iin kharajt min eindiha hafizat wa ‘iin dakhalt ealayha surat w ‘iin ‘amartuha ‘ataeatniy w ‘iin ‘aqsamt ealayha ‘abarat qasamiy wa ‘iin ghadibt ealayha ‘ardatniy ya dha aljalal w al’iikram hab liy dhalik fa’iinama ‘as’alukah wa la akhidh aila ma manant wa a’taayt”
“O Allah, bless me, a friendly wife, and thank You for Your gratitude, if I have done well, thank you, and if I have sinned, forgive me, and if you remember God, I have helped you. If you forgot, I remembered, and if I went out of her, I saved her, and if I entered her, I passed by her and ordered her to obey me. Glory and Glory to Him I ask Him and take only what I give and give”Sponsors Link
8. Dua from Hadith
“Allahahummaftahlee hikmataka wanshur alayya min hazaa ini rahmatika yaa arhamar raahimeen”
“O Allah open for me your wisdom and bless me Your blessings, O Compassion and Mercy”
9. Quran 9:129 (At Tawbah)
“Hasbunallaah wani’mal wakeel ni’mal mawla wani’man naseer”
“Sufficient for me is Allah; there is no God except Him. On Him I put my trust, and He is the Lord of the Great Throne.
10. Quran 93:1-11 (Adh Dhuhaa)
A woman should recite this Quran before noon or better after fajr in 11 times.
“Waaldduha, Waallayli izaa saja. Ma wadda’aka rabbuka wama qala. Walalakhiratu khayrun laka mina aloola. Walasawfa yu’teeka rabbuka fatarda. Alam yajidka yateeman faawa. Wawajadaka dallan fahada. Wawajadaka ‘aailan faaghna. Faamma alyateema fala taqhar. Waamma alssaila fala tanhar. Waamma bini’mati rabbika fahaddith.”
“By the morning brightness. And [by] the night when it covers with darkness,Your Lord has not taken leave of you, [O Muhammad], nor has He detested [you]. And the Hereafter is better for you than the first [life]. And your Lord is going to give you, and you will be satisfied. Did He not find you an orphan and give [you] refuge?And He found you lost and guided [you], And He found you poor and made [you] self-sufficient. So as for the orphan, do not oppress [him]. And as for the petitioner, do not repel [him]. But as for the favor of your Lord, report [it].”
11. Quran 89:21 (An Anbiya)
“Rabbi la tadharnia fardana wa’anta khayrul waritheen
“O my Lord do not let me live alone and You are the Most Excellent Inheritor.”
12. Dua After Istikhara Pray
Before performing this dua, perform the two rakaah of Istikhara pray for asking the guidance to Allah. After praying, a Moslem should recite the dua below:
“Allahumma inni astakhiruka bi’ilmika, Wa astaqdiruka bi-qudratika, Wa asaluka min fadlika al-’azim Fa-innaka taqdiru Wala aqdiru, Wa ta’lamu Wala a’lamu, Wa anta ‘allamu l-ghuyub. Allahumma, in kunta ta’lam anna *HADHA-L-AMRA (this matter) Khairun li fi dini wa ma’ashi wa’aqibati amri (or ‘ajili amri wa’ajilihi) Faqdirhu li wa yas-sirhu li thumma barik li Fihi, Wa in kunta ta’lamu anna*hadha-lamra (this matter) shar-run li fi dini wa ma’ashi wa’aqibati amri (orfi’ajili amri wa ajilihi) Fasrifhu anni was-rifni anhu. Waqdir li alkhaira haithu kana Thumma ardini bihi”
“O Allah, I consult You as You are All-Knowing and I appeal to You to give me power as You are Omnipotent, I ask You for Your great favour, for You have power and I do not, and You know all of the hidden matters . O Allah ! If you know that this matter (then he should mention it) is good for me in my religion, my livelihood, and for my life in the Hereafter, (or he said: ‘for my present and future life,’) then make it (easy) for me. And if you know that this matter is not good for me in my religion, my livelihood and my life in the Hereafter, (or he said: ‘for my present and future life,’) then keep it away from me and take me away from it and choose what is good for me wherever it is and please me with it.”
13. Dua for finding mate and get married soon
“Allaahumma inni ureeduan atazawwaja, allaahumma faqaddirly minarrijaali ahsanahum khalqan wakhulqan wa awsa’ahum rizqan wa a’zamahuma barakatan warzuqni waladan thayyiban taj’aluhuu fahran fee hayati wa fawzan ba’da mauti.
“O God I want to marry. O Allah, set for me the handsome man and the righteous, the most plenty of sustenance, the most blessed, and give me a good child, and you make him/her my pride in my lifetime and success after my death.”
14. QS 24:26 (An Nur)
This ayah of Quran should be recited 3 times after obligatory prayer with the good intentions and sincerity in finding the right husband.
“Al habisatu lil habisina wal habisuna lil habisa, wat tayyibatu lit tayyibina wat tayyibuna lit tayyibati, ulaika mubarrauna mimma yakulun, lahum magfiratun wa rizkun karimun
“Evil words are for evil men, and evil men are [subjected] to evil words. And good words are for good men, and good men are [an object] of good words. Those [good people] are declared innocent of what the slanderers say. For them is forgiveness and noble provision”
15. Quran 20 (Thaaha) all verses
Just reciting this surah for 20 times Insha Allah for single woman, Allah will grant her the right husband sooner. this Surah always recommended when you deeply madly want to get a good husband to accompany you for the rest of your life.
16. Salawat Nariya
It is recited 11 times after obligatory prayer
“Allahumma Sali salatan kalimah wa salim sallaman taman allaa sayidina Muhammadiladhee tanhalu bihil ‘uqadu wa tanfariju bihil kurabu. Wa tuqzabihil hawaaiju wa tunnalu bihira’ibu wa husnul hawaatim wa yustaqal ghamaamu biwajhiheel kareem. Wa alaa aalihee wa sahbihee fee kulli lamhatiw wa hafasim bi adaadi kulli ma’loomil laka. Ya rabbal ‘aalameen”
“O Allaah, send perfect salutation and complete peace upon our master Muhammad by virtue of whom all obstacles are removed, calamities are relieved, needs are fulfilled, desires are fulfilled and a good end may be achieved and by virtue of whose noble face clouds may be sent the rain, and sent salutation and peace upon his family and companions with every breath and glance and everything that is known of You”
17. Quran 12:4 (Yusuf)
“Iz qaala yusoofu li abiihi ya abati innii ra aitu ahada ashara kaukabaw wa shamsa wal qamara ra aituhum lii sajidin”
“when Joseph said to his father, “O my father, indeed I have seen [in a dream] eleven stars and the sun and the moon; I saw them prostrating to me.”
Recite the ayah above three times after obligatory prayer.
18. Quran 36:36 (Ya seen)
“Subhana alladee halaqa al-azwaaja kulahaa mimmaa tunbitu al ardhu wamin anfusihim wa mimmaa laa ya’lamoon”
“ Glory be to the One who created all pairs – from what the earth grows and from themselves and from that which they do not know.”
19. Dua from Hadith
Allāhumma innī as’aluka zawjan ṣāliḥan taqiyyan wa fīhi khayrun kathīrun wa barakatun ʿaẓīmah. Allāhumma ajʿalhu min khayrati ʿibādika al-ṣāliḥīn.
O Allah, I ask You for a righteous, God-fearing husband, in whom there is much good and immense blessing. O Allah, make him among the best of Your righteous servants.
20. Dua from Hadith
Allāhumma in kunta ta‘lam anna hādhā al-zawja khayrun lī fī dīnī wa dunyāya wa ākhiratī faqdirHU lī wa yassirHU lī.
“O Allah, if You know that this husband is good for me in my religion, worldly life and the Hereafter, then decree him for me and make him easy for me.”
Thus 20 dua for finding a good husband. Hopefully, they will help the single woman who intends finding a righteous husband.